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I have never orgasmed during sex. But I can from masturbation. Help?

I can orgasm with a shower head but I never have with sex. I love my boyfriend very much so I don't think its a security thing. HELP me. I have a sex drive so whats going on?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 4:40 PM on Jul. 2, 2008 in Relationships

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  • I have the exact same problem. Are you lying to him about the fact that you are? Guilt can be a huge factor. That is mine, I know. Until my husband and I were married, I never did with sex. For some reason, I felt guilty about having sex with him, even though we were exclusive and long term. Same with my ex. We were together for 3 years and not once.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:00 PM on Jul. 2, 2008

  • oh god dont feel bad its soooooooooooooooooo normal not to
    cameron536

    Answer by cameron536 at 5:02 PM on Jul. 2, 2008

  • I have only had a handful of orgasms during sex and I've been with my husband for 5 years (this friday!), so just like you, I can orgasm with masturbation, but not sex. You are not alone.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:38 PM on Jul. 2, 2008

  • I would guess that masterbation is just more stimulating than sex for you. I don't think there is anything wrong, though.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:57 PM on Jul. 2, 2008

  • well i wanna enjoy it. any advice on how to fix this???
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:11 PM on Jul. 2, 2008

  • Try masturbating during sex and if your hand doesn't do the trick, try a toy. That's if you feel comfortable enough with your BF to do this with him. Just relax and enjoy.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:23 PM on Jul. 2, 2008

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