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Should I feel guilty...? adult content

I am no cheater, but I like to fanticize about my hubby's friends and my ex's when we have sex...is this wrong?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 1:51 PM on Oct. 1, 2010 in Relationships

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  • YES
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 1:52 PM on Oct. 1, 2010

  • 1st off .

    May I ask.. Why do you fantasize about other men during sex? The answer to that makes a difference in regards to my answer.. lol
    pixie_trix

    Answer by pixie_trix at 1:52 PM on Oct. 1, 2010

  • No it isn't wrong. But keep it to yourself!!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:54 PM on Oct. 1, 2010

  • would you want your husband to fantisize about your friends when having sex with you?
    jennifer588

    Answer by jennifer588 at 1:54 PM on Oct. 1, 2010

  • Eh, it's not wrong as long as it's JUST a fantasy and you don't end up acting on it!
    SarahLeeMorgan

    Answer by SarahLeeMorgan at 1:55 PM on Oct. 1, 2010


  • maybe better to think about a movie star then his friends
    and not often, if often and his close friends, something may be lacking in your marriage
    fiatpax

    Answer by fiatpax at 1:56 PM on Oct. 1, 2010

  • I hope he does not read your Cafemom
    tootoobusy

    Answer by tootoobusy at 1:56 PM on Oct. 1, 2010

  • is your gulit part of your FUN
    is it a naughty thing, feelings of guilt add to your fantasy???
    fiatpax

    Answer by fiatpax at 1:57 PM on Oct. 1, 2010

  • I think my DH is the sexiest man to walk the planet. I would be hurt to find out he did while we were having sex.
    stepho345

    Answer by stepho345 at 2:00 PM on Oct. 1, 2010

  • LOL

    FP.... Your'e in my head today... LOL

    That's why I asked about the "Why".

    If it's because something is lacking in the relationship, or because the sex is lacking.. or anything along those lines. Then those things are an issue, not the fantasizing itself.. If fantasizing is needed in order to get into the groove. Then the lack of groove should be addressed in the relationship.

    If it's just because it's fun or whatever. And everything is great in the sex department without fantasizing about other men. Then no issues and go for it.. Just don't share the info, it most likely wouldn't be taken well.. LOL
    pixie_trix

    Answer by pixie_trix at 2:01 PM on Oct. 1, 2010

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