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Crazy Question for any one who will know! adult content

my husban and i are working on making a baby!!!!! Yay i know. But i have read that having sex every day can hurt our chance now my question is we have a great sex life we get it on at least once a day honestly do we need to take it down a lot or every few days or what is that even true about getting pregnate? thanks guys

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saadamarie

Asked by saadamarie at 3:30 PM on Oct. 1, 2010 in Trying to Conceive

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  • i have heard ever other day will be fine. you have to give him a chance to make more spermy's :)
    Ericha7

    Answer by Ericha7 at 3:31 PM on Oct. 1, 2010

  • Have you been trying a long time? If you just started, continue the way you always do and see what happens. If nothing happens for a few months, the you need to concentrate your efforts around when you ovulate.
    mompam

    Answer by mompam at 3:32 PM on Oct. 1, 2010

  • Having lots of sex improves your chances of getting pregnant as far as I know...Why would it hurt your chances of conceiving?
    I would continue to do what you're doing, especially increase the amount right after your period and for the next couple of weeks. This is when you're most fertile.
    Evansmommy91

    Answer by Evansmommy91 at 3:33 PM on Oct. 1, 2010

  • Do it every 3 days naturally,and use a non spermicidal condom on the days in between.
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 3:33 PM on Oct. 1, 2010

  • thanks guys were just starting this month and i was concernd after i read that!
    saadamarie

    Comment by saadamarie (original poster) at 3:34 PM on Oct. 1, 2010

  • I have heard all sorts of thing but i have also heard that 3 days off helps increase the chance when your fertile...
    allforlove229

    Answer by allforlove229 at 3:34 PM on Oct. 1, 2010

  • Sperm is continuously being produced so its not like he's going to run out. It's not like you have sex & then he's shooting blanks the next day lol
    lisa89j

    Answer by lisa89j at 3:34 PM on Oct. 1, 2010

  • Do it once a week and make sure your man makes you orgasm.
    mamacita69930

    Answer by mamacita69930 at 3:35 PM on Oct. 1, 2010

  • "Couples who tried to get pregnant were previously told to have sex once every other day during their fertile days. But studies have shown you can improve your chances if you have sex once a day every day (as long as his sperm are OK) during the fertile 4-5 days prior to, and the day of, ovulation."

    http://www.babymed.com/sex-getting-pregnant/how-often-sex-during-fertile-days-when-ttc
    lisa89j

    Answer by lisa89j at 3:36 PM on Oct. 1, 2010

  • Thank you lisa89j that was so help full
    saadamarie

    Comment by saadamarie (original poster) at 3:39 PM on Oct. 1, 2010

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