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Time to throw in the towel?

how do you know when the relationship cant be fixed its over and will never be there again?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 7:06 PM on Oct. 23, 2008 in Relationships

Answers (12)
  • let me know when you get the answer . i'm in the same situation
    alwms

    Answer by alwms at 7:07 PM on Oct. 23, 2008

  • When you have had to ask yourself that more than once.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:07 PM on Oct. 23, 2008

  • When you can see yourself without that other person.
    MommaWoods

    Answer by MommaWoods at 7:23 PM on Oct. 23, 2008

  • When you feel like there's absolutely nothing else to work with... that you have both given all you can give.
    lisa_ann_p

    Answer by lisa_ann_p at 7:24 PM on Oct. 23, 2008

  • as DRPhil says (sorry) when you've done everything you can to make it work but it hasn't helped and when your comfortable enough to walk away with No hard feelings. i had this when i left my ex husband. i knew i did everything i could to help but it wasn't working and i just felt peace about leaving. of course if you love him your going to be emotional but you'll know when its time. the heartbreak goes away after awhile
    hotmama541

    Answer by hotmama541 at 7:25 PM on Oct. 23, 2008

  • when both parties say that's enough
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 7:27 PM on Oct. 23, 2008

  • When the issue or issues are bigger and MORE important than the LOVE that you have for each other. Remember..LOVE is "Suppose" to be unconditional..REGARDLESS.
    sydsmom2

    Answer by sydsmom2 at 7:42 PM on Oct. 23, 2008

  • I think the above posts are right I think its time when you have nothing left to give and you are comfortable with the thought of being without the person and it can be an easy clean break with no huge hard feelings!!
    scaredmommy08

    Answer by scaredmommy08 at 8:23 PM on Oct. 23, 2008

  • When you know you can walk out the door, without regret, and without anger or sadness... just peace.
    LovinMyMikayla

    Answer by LovinMyMikayla at 8:35 PM on Oct. 23, 2008

  • when you can be relieved that your relationship is over, instead of angry and bitter.
    TempestRayne

    Answer by TempestRayne at 10:05 PM on Oct. 23, 2008

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