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would you consider it weird if your boyfriend was texing a girl but didn't tell you until you found out on your own?

why do men lie about these things? is it because they just think we'll freak or is it that they want to cheat?

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 7:39 PM on Oct. 23, 2008 in Relationships

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Answers (16)
  • If he's keeping it a secret, he thinks he's doing something wrong and you have a right to be upset.
    amydh

    Answer by amydh at 7:47 PM on Oct. 23, 2008

  • hey that rhymes, sorry to be a smart ass!! i would wonder why hes texing other girls yes, i dont have mens numbers that my husband doesn't know about- what was his reasoning?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:41 PM on Oct. 23, 2008

  • he "just wanted someone to talk to"
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:41 PM on Oct. 23, 2008

  • That's a load of crap! ~~ He's cheating!
    christyg

    Answer by christyg at 7:43 PM on Oct. 23, 2008

  • You bet I would.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:48 PM on Oct. 23, 2008

  • I think the fact that he keeps it a secret is crap...if you knew about it or he told you after the fact that is one thing...but to keep it from you is fishy.
    salexander

    Answer by salexander at 8:02 PM on Oct. 23, 2008

  • I would be pissed....seriously. If you hide things from your SO, then you don't have innocent intentions.
    KennsWifey

    Answer by KennsWifey at 8:07 PM on Oct. 23, 2008

  • Shouldn't he be talking to you??
    AuntieM

    Answer by AuntieM at 8:08 PM on Oct. 23, 2008

  • I think that gives you the right to find someone other than him to text!!
    sydsmom2

    Answer by sydsmom2 at 8:12 PM on Oct. 23, 2008

  • I dont' think it's weird, I think it's dishonest. If he just wanted someone to talk to, it should be you, not some other girl. (unless they've been friends for 100 years!) I think I'd reevaluate the relationship.
    Austinsmom35

    Answer by Austinsmom35 at 8:16 PM on Oct. 23, 2008