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Who decided where where you and SO go on your dates?

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Asked by martinmommy26 at 10:05 AM on Oct. 2, 2010 in Relationships

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  • It is a mutual decision. Usually we will split up the decision making (i.e. he chooses the dinner and I choose the movie or vice versa, or we just both agree to do something else).

    Answer by QueenMomma2023 at 10:13 AM on Oct. 2, 2010

  • We love the same things, we just go! :)

    Answer by Scuba at 10:14 AM on Oct. 2, 2010

  • We have times when we do different things. Then we have times when we are glued at the hip. It does not matter who decide as long as we are togather. the funny thing is that we both like the same things at different times. so it is funny how things work out with us.

    Answer by dorotheabrown37 at 11:10 AM on Oct. 2, 2010

  • Lol our daughter! We dont have anyone near here that we feel comfortable to let babysit, so we almost never go out without DD... =)

    Answer by SierraLynn at 12:20 PM on Oct. 2, 2010

  • We rarely go anywhere.....and when we do....I usually decide and plan...he doesn't feel comfortable doing that and never has....

    Answer by Anna92464 at 12:45 PM on Oct. 2, 2010

  • We talk about where we would like to go, unless it a special occasion and we will surprise one another, but we both love Chinese food so we can never go wrong there lol!

    Answer by patsymay84 at 12:51 PM on Oct. 2, 2010

  • Mutual decision. When we're able to do dates, it's usually Chili's (they've got yummy food) and see a movie.

    Answer by _Tam_ at 1:15 PM on Oct. 2, 2010

  • we both make suggestions - it works for us!!!

    Answer by kaysimon132461 at 1:41 PM on Oct. 2, 2010

  • we usually decide together unless we make plans with another couple

    Answer by diana398 at 3:01 PM on Oct. 2, 2010

  • usually its a mutual decision or we take turns. Like last weekend, we did a haunted house thing, its not really my thing, I am not in to scary stuff, but I went anyway. He wanted to go, & I wanted to be with him. This weekend we are going dancing at my favorite country bar. We are able to compromise

    Answer by stressedmomma13 at 12:44 AM on Oct. 3, 2010

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