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3 Bumps

What do you think?

Which do you think impacts a guy more? A girl who hurts him in one big way, or a girl who hurts him in a lot of small ways? (but not intentionally). Also, who do you think has a bigger impact on a man?...His first love or the girl he loses his virginity too?

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Asked by countrygirl1987 at 5:15 PM on Oct. 2, 2010 in Relationships

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  • First love, virginity is a girl thing. I'm not sure for guys, but hurting over and over is hard on me.

    Answer by dancinintherain at 5:18 PM on Oct. 2, 2010

  • I think both of those are different with each guy. As for the hurting thing, i don't really think its a guy or girl thing. Its a lot easier to forgive or get over ONE big thing than it is a lot of little things.

    Answer by hobbitswife04 at 5:21 PM on Oct. 2, 2010

  • First love.

    Answer by tootoobusy at 5:31 PM on Oct. 2, 2010

  • Hurting really bad one time i think bothers men more, and i think first love.

    Answer by Brianna-Ravae at 5:54 PM on Oct. 2, 2010

  • Someone's first love has a big impact on anyone, even if they hate that person to this day.
    I also think that one big betrayal hurts men more then the little things. As far as my experience goes that's what I've noticed. They hold onto the bigger things more then the little things.

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 6:22 PM on Oct. 2, 2010

  • The hurting thing depends on the guy. But, probably for most, being hurt in a big way would be worst. The little things, they could generally get over in time. The first love most definatly has a bigger impact on him then who he loses his virginity to.

    Answer by Raine2001 at 6:40 PM on Oct. 2, 2010

  • Did you ever see a man with a woman who teated him like S**t, but he had no clue?well thats the woman who does many little things. He'll never leave her.I was going to say virginity, but my first experience was horrible- so, I would go with first love.

    Answer by emilysmom1966 at 8:19 PM on Oct. 2, 2010

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