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How do I get another man (not my husband) out of my head.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 7:58 PM on Oct. 2, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (5)
  • remember why you love your husband,..and also tell yourself its okay to have these thoughts...but not okay to act upon them.
    mywonderyears

    Answer by mywonderyears at 8:08 PM on Oct. 2, 2010

  • girl! I have the same problem.My ex was the best lover I ever had.
    emilysmom1966

    Answer by emilysmom1966 at 8:12 PM on Oct. 2, 2010

  • it's part of nature to think about other guys. I admit, I sure do. But they are only fantasies. Superficial. What SO and I have is real. He's the father of my son, he works hard for the family and I am a sahm, he is the only guy I want and I have him. No one could take his place.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:14 PM on Oct. 2, 2010

  • Take a look at your marriage. Maybe something is wrong there. Try to work it out.
    AshlyN.

    Answer by AshlyN. at 8:47 PM on Oct. 2, 2010

  • Hard to do but if you just distance yourself from the person in every way and fill your mind and time with other things constantly, you can do it.
    rio_burb

    Answer by rio_burb at 2:51 AM on Oct. 3, 2010

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