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How do I get another man (not my husband) out of my head.

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Asked by Anonymous at 7:58 PM on Oct. 2, 2010 in Relationships

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  • remember why you love your husband,..and also tell yourself its okay to have these thoughts...but not okay to act upon them.

    Answer by mywonderyears at 8:08 PM on Oct. 2, 2010

  • girl! I have the same problem.My ex was the best lover I ever had.

    Answer by emilysmom1966 at 8:12 PM on Oct. 2, 2010

  • it's part of nature to think about other guys. I admit, I sure do. But they are only fantasies. Superficial. What SO and I have is real. He's the father of my son, he works hard for the family and I am a sahm, he is the only guy I want and I have him. No one could take his place.

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:14 PM on Oct. 2, 2010

  • Take a look at your marriage. Maybe something is wrong there. Try to work it out.

    Answer by AshlyN. at 8:47 PM on Oct. 2, 2010

  • Hard to do but if you just distance yourself from the person in every way and fill your mind and time with other things constantly, you can do it.

    Answer by rio_burb at 2:51 AM on Oct. 3, 2010

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