Right after I had my first baby.. I didn't know how to be a mother and a lover. So I read a few books. One of the things that it said was that 1... you and your husband have to realise and understand that THIS WILL HAPPEN. There will not be a lot of time for "together time" and certainly not a lot of time for sex. It recommended that you get a baby sitter, not to go out, but to STAY IN! Have the sitter watch them away from your home so that you can have a little intamcy time. Also, get used to quickies! lol If they are taking a nap, even if you can not "complete the deed" sort to speak, it will still be better than none. Hope this helps!
at 6:12 PM on Jul. 2, 2008