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HELP my husband and his fam keep trying to get me to have another kid 1 he is NEVER home so of course he thinks its easy and 2 im planning on leaving him by the end of next year but I cant tell him because his family and him are very mean


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Asked by Anonymous at 3:18 AM on Oct. 3, 2010 in Relationships

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  • YOU have the right NOT to have more babies. Good luck to you.

    Answer by AdrianaS at 3:28 AM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • wow, why wait so long if you already have it planned just do it. It saves you and him in the long run.

    Answer by moma22angels at 3:29 AM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • And why are you staying with him?? I think that is selfish to do that to your self and him.. Just leave. Don't stay and put yourself in that punishment any lonoger then you need to. And secondly, its your decsion on when you are going to have another baby.. no one elses. Let then give you the cold shoulder.. so what.. They are not the ones that has to put up with the morning sickness, constant peeing 3-4 times a night and feeling like you arre carrying a house instead of a baby.. no is no..

    Answer by Airforce3mom at 7:53 AM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • If there is any way you can leave sooner please do for your safety and well being. Good luck!

    Answer by elizabr at 8:16 AM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • That's a long way off. Do you have friends/family that you could stay with to move up your plans? Or to loan you $ for your own place? If by "mean" you mean violent, you cant afford to stay another day! Please rethink your plan & Good luck

    Answer by mrsmom110 at 8:21 AM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • You have made up your mind to leave already but my question is why have you planned to stick it out for a year? Do what you feel in your heart is right for you and your child. If they are "mean" to the point you are afraid then you need to seek some help and get the heck out of Dodge A.S.A.P. Good luck to you

    Answer by Cheveyo1 at 9:43 AM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • It's your choice, not theirs. Tell them they can back off if they still want to see the grandchild they have.

    Answer by _Tam_ at 2:58 PM on Oct. 3, 2010

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