DH and I have been together for 15 years and married for 10. We have had a pretty good marriage but our sex life was never 'above average'. It's like he can have it or not. We did have issues previously and at the time we went almost 2 years of not having sex and said it was mental. We went to counseling, etc. and started back up and had an OK sex life for about a year. However I found that I was initiating the most and so I said to myself I'm not going to initiate the next time and see what happens and so we haven't had sex since and it will be a year next month. Meanwhile he hasn't tried to touch me, complained, or acted like he's noticed at all and I am going crazy. He swears that he's attracted to me and I don't have any signs of him cheating. It's like I'm married to the only guy that doesn't like or care if he ever has sex. He is 41 but this goes back to when he was in his late 30's.
Asked by Anonymous at 10:05 AM on Oct. 3, 2010 in Relationships
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I would have him go get his testosterone level checked, that could very well be the problem, if not.....possibly what the other girls have mentioned could be true.
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