I do believe in spankings (for those that do or don't). When she does something I usually give one warning and tell her no or don't do that or get out of that or whatever. Then if she does it again I usually spank her butt or sit her in timeout depending on what it is for. Well lately she has a new thing with taking the cushions off the couch and jumping on the couch and now she is jumping on the coffee table. I was spanking her butt with my hand, but lately I been using a wooden spoon. Timeouts don't even work it is like talking to a wall with her or she willsometimes not even look at you when she is doing something or look at you after you say no and does it anyway. She bits herself (use to be other now herself). She has a thing to with someone she doesn't even know she smacks them and gets in there face and grawls or she kicks them and laughs CONT...
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Answer by MisticDawn6 at 11:10 AM on Oct. 3, 2010
Work proactively rather than reactively.
Start the day by saying you know she is going to have a good day and listen to mommy. The first few things that she did that you asked her do recognize it and tell her happy you are that she listened to you.
If she continues to throw the cushions off the sofa, take them off for the day and make her sit on the floor. Remind her you can't put them on until she knows how to leave them on the sofa where they belong.
See the discipline books http://www.cjkidz.com/parentsgrandparentsteachers.html
Answer by momjs at 11:10 AM on Oct. 3, 2010