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Who's the instigator? adult content

Who instigates sex more often, you or your partner?

It's about 50-50 for us.


Asked by QueenMomma2023 at 12:47 PM on Oct. 3, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (10)
  • Well, I'm not with anyone right now but when I was married, in the beginning it was 50/ the relationship went on I instigated it more......then towards the end of the relationship he instigated it more. Funny how that works...HAHA.

    Answer by Mom2Dano at 1:47 PM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • Me, I love sex way more than my hubby. Poor guy, I feel like our roles are switched.

    Answer by Gnomeofmyheart at 12:48 PM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • we both do for us all it takes is a look, 8 years and we still do it like 2 friskey teenagers.

    Answer by danni1982 at 1:12 PM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • Always him

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 12:48 PM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • About 75 him 25 me

    Answer by Moms_Angels1960 at 12:57 PM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • it depends on my mood. but most times it's him.

    Answer by EttaMay at 12:59 PM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • mosty dh, except when im not prego then its bout 50/50

    Answer by mayo9mommy at 1:04 PM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • He does. I used to try but he always said no. Then one day he told me that he likes to be the "chaser". So I let him. It sucks sometimes because all I want to do is jump him but I wait. Luckily he loves sex so we do it all the time.

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:37 PM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • Usually him but sometimes me. And if I'm not the one to start it, it's not because I don't want to...I think it's more that I want him to want me ;)

    Answer by Baby.Fremd7 at 5:09 PM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • my partner, if it was for my SO we would have sex everyday.

    Answer by Ahealthyskin at 7:41 PM on Oct. 3, 2010