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Could you forgive??

Could you forgive your husband if he cheated on you? Not saying that mine has or hasn't just wondering.

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Darla47

Asked by Darla47 at 5:21 PM on Oct. 3, 2010 in Relationships

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  • No if he cheat once what the chance he'll do it again. It would take a long time for me to trust him again.
    andmaef28

    Answer by andmaef28 at 5:23 PM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • I would seriously consider not forgiving him because how could I ever trust him again.
    And I would constantly be paranoid about him cheating again.
    samantha.1992

    Answer by samantha.1992 at 5:25 PM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • no way the day he feels the need to sex up another person thats the day are marriage is over...i will never have a man play me dirty and bring me a STD...
    iNk-FrEaK

    Answer by iNk-FrEaK at 5:25 PM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • No, i could not forgive him. A lot of women can. I for one, could not....It would eat at me and the trust would be gone!
    gogogirl79

    Answer by gogogirl79 at 5:26 PM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • That's the one thing that is not forgivable.
    dancinintherain

    Answer by dancinintherain at 5:33 PM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • Nope, never. If he cheats, he is gone, and he knows this.
    fallnangel93

    Answer by fallnangel93 at 5:35 PM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • All depends on the circumstances and how I found out that he cheated and everything else, but it is possible that I could (and likely that I would) forgive him, but he wouldn't have any trust anymore.
    QueenMomma2023

    Answer by QueenMomma2023 at 5:35 PM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • I can't say I'd never forgive, because I've never had to deal with it and because I've been offered more forgiveness in my lifetime than I deserve. It truly, honestly depends on a lot of things.
    aliceryannesmom

    Answer by aliceryannesmom at 5:40 PM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • I might forgive him but truxt me on this I would never forget
    lchristianson5

    Answer by lchristianson5 at 5:48 PM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • After I divorce my now EX- I forgave him. I didn't while we were married.
    To forgive, makes you free...and able to move on...be happy ---? forgive!
    Ahealthyskin

    Answer by Ahealthyskin at 7:30 PM on Oct. 3, 2010

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