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How do you keep the spice... adult content

After having your child/children... do you still have the urge to have sex with your partner? Or did it go away? How do you keep things HOT and STEAMY?

 
SweetSmeek

Asked by SweetSmeek at 7:04 PM on Oct. 3, 2010 in Relationships

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  • You set aside time for just the two of you. When the children were younger, it meant that once a week - we ate after the kids were fed and in bed. And know that there is nothing wrong with having to "schedule" your intimate time. As long as you get some intimate time it really doesn't matter how it is done.
    twinsplus2more

    Answer by twinsplus2more at 7:09 PM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • Dh and I are more hot for each other now than we were 9 years ago. 4 kids later and the spice is most definitely there. Just last night the kids were with his sister and we had a date night.

    Keeping the spice there can be a hard thing to do yes. I have tried dressing up, new positions, lubes, flavored lubes, toys. Sometimes stepping outside the box can help... I wish you the best of luck
    4xsthetrouble

    Answer by 4xsthetrouble at 7:08 PM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • You make a date and describe your plans to please him in detail! the anticipation will drive him and you crazy! make time for the two of you without interruptions.
    older

    Answer by older at 7:12 PM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • make time for each other
    DWeitz

    Answer by DWeitz at 10:45 AM on Oct. 4, 2010

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