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Is my Husband insecure if he always accusing me of cheating?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 9:58 PM on Oct. 3, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Yes. My first husband did the same thing to me. Everyone told me if he is always accusing you of cheating it's because he is cheating and feels guilty.
    mom23girls541

    Answer by mom23girls541 at 10:00 PM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • That or he just has a guilty concience !
    mamahol

    Answer by mamahol at 10:04 PM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • Or just plain insecure (someone in his past must have messed him around bad) GL
    Butterfly1108

    Answer by Butterfly1108 at 10:06 PM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • Before me he had a horrible relationship. She treated him real bad. Thanks!
    originalwoman

    Answer by originalwoman at 10:09 PM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • SOME of the time if they are accusing you they are hiding the fact that they cheated.
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 10:11 PM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • Last guy that did do that to me was sleeping with someone else!!
    Musicmom80

    Answer by Musicmom80 at 10:14 PM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • My XH did this after the birth of our child. Turns out he was cheating.
    Jademom07

    Answer by Jademom07 at 10:19 PM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • Usually someone is insecure if they are guilty...
    stringtheory

    Answer by stringtheory at 10:26 PM on Oct. 3, 2010

  • he probably has a guilty conscience.
    stressedmomma13

    Answer by stressedmomma13 at 1:14 AM on Oct. 4, 2010

  • I have heard that it means that something is going on with them. It might not be cheating, but it is probably something. It could be pornography. Try calmly asking him if anything is going on, but don't accuse him of anything. I would ask for some help in addressing it.
    DawnDietz777

    Answer by DawnDietz777 at 1:21 AM on Oct. 4, 2010

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