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Is it wrong to love your adult child, but not like her?

She does nothing to help me out, she is 20 & still has an attitude & is VERY selfish

 
NicolesMommy

Asked by NicolesMommy at 2:39 AM on Oct. 4, 2010 in Adult Children (18+)

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  • no, it is not wrong - i have a 40-year-old son who i LOVE but do not like - he is very rude to me since his marriage (14 years ago), thinks he knows it all, pulls faces at me when i talk, - has a great relationship with his dad - they golf together and have sports in common - call each other back and forth when a game is on tv and go to games together - when we take him and his family out to dinner, his wife doesn't even speak to me - he mainly puts me down - but i concentrate on my 2 beautiful grands (8 and 5) - they are my heart - and they so love me - that i can take anything the parents dish out to me - because i have them!!! oh, his wife doesn't speak to my husband either - but it doesn't bother him the way it does me ...
    kaysimon132461

    Answer by kaysimon132461 at 9:53 AM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • I have a 24 year old sister. We all love her, but none of us like her...my parents included. You can't make yourself like someone, so don't feel bad for having honest emotions.
    art.diva

    Answer by art.diva at 2:42 AM on Oct. 4, 2010

  • We don't HAVE to like our relatives jus because they are related to us, inclduing our children.
    tracylynnr67

    Answer by tracylynnr67 at 2:10 PM on Oct. 4, 2010

  • Not at all. We ALL have times where we will NOT like our children while we still love them.
    twinsplus2more

    Answer by twinsplus2more at 8:40 AM on Oct. 4, 2010

  • No it isn't wrong.
    older

    Answer by older at 10:27 AM on Oct. 4, 2010

  • No,but it happens.
    tasches

    Answer by tasches at 2:47 PM on Oct. 4, 2010

  • We don't always like our children. We love them but sometimes we just end up having nothing in common with them. Don't beat yourself up over it. Things may change as she grows up a bit.
    L.A.F.outloud

    Answer by L.A.F.outloud at 6:55 PM on Oct. 4, 2010

  • no it is not wrong because that is how I feel right now about mine!
    4_28_bbboy

    Answer by 4_28_bbboy at 2:12 AM on Oct. 7, 2010

  • She is super lazy & only wants her way or no way! If a family member tells her how to live her life then she gets mad & says she never wants to see them again! You can't say a word to her! She mentally drains me
    NicolesMommy

    Comment by NicolesMommy (original poster) at 2:50 AM on Oct. 4, 2010

  • I hope that happens soon. She is so rude that I can't stand it! We just moved to a new state so I am trying to give her time
    NicolesMommy

    Comment by NicolesMommy (original poster) at 2:29 AM on Oct. 5, 2010

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