I've just had information about my birth dad fall into my lap. My mom has never been forth coming about his identity for fear that she would loose me. I have assured her that she has nothing to worry about. She was very young when she had me and my birth dad told her to abort me. She told him never to talk to her again and not to look for me. I've just found out that he has two other daughters and two sons. One of his daughters is married to my cousin-in-law's brother. My extended family found out when they attended the wedding this summer. I always pictured him not wanting to meet me, or being ashamed of me. He says he wants to talk to me. My biggest concern is my mother's reaction. I don't want to stress her out. Any tips or thoughts as to a good way to bring this up to my mom?
Answer by Cheveyo1 at 10:13 AM on Oct. 4, 2010
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