We have been living with them for 6 months. His mom says she cant keep a job for health reasons but wont file for disability. His dad works. They already get lots of food stamps and government aid and now he is telling me that when we move out in a few weeks he wants to start buying her all kinds of things for her house because she has nothing nice.
Anything nice we have ever gotten her has just been messed up and used by her 4 other kids and I dont feel obligated to do that! I dont mind giving her money to watch our daughter or clean our house or something but why should they get all kinds of free stuff from us regularly when I have to hassel him to even buy my parents Christmas gifts!?
Am I being unresonable considering we have lived here for free for 6 months and she has watched our daughter for me to stay in school? Or am I right that they need to help themselves and they arent our responsability?
Asked by Anonymous at 5:32 PM on Oct. 4, 2010 in Adult Children (18+)
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Answer by aliceryannesmom at 5:41 PM on Oct. 4, 2010
You have been living with his parents for free for 6 mo. He should be able to buy them anything he wants. It is difficult to let your son and his wife and child come live with you. Been there done that and glad when she was gone.
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