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How can I love my husband more?

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Asked by Anonymous at 6:37 PM on Oct. 4, 2010 in Relationships

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  • I don't think you can force emotions that aren't there. However, if there are problems in your relationship, solving them will increase the lovey feelings you have for each other. You can seek couple's counciling for them, or try to work them out yourselves. Either way, keep lines of communication open and don't forget to express love and affection for each other

    Answer by Ati_13 at 6:42 PM on Oct. 4, 2010

  • Expressing it would be a good way to show him how much.

    Answer by older at 6:57 PM on Oct. 4, 2010

  • By getting to know him better, what makes him upset, happy, ticked off etc etc. I call it "Know Your Man" meaning get to know the things that encourage & build him up and the things that just tear him down. Become a student of your husband. Also the book 'Women Are From Venus Men Are From Mars' is super insightful (It is actually full of bible scriptures) but written in a way that is really easy to comprehend and boy oh boy will it make sense to you immediately. Men & women are wired differently, they think differently than we do therefore it causes arguments and hurt feelings that can actually be totally avoided by knowing your husband and being blessed & encouraged & remembering all of the things that made you fall in love with him to begin with. As you allow yourself to learn your husband all over again you will probably desire more intimacy which will also cause you to love him more.

    Answer by blessedwork at 7:22 PM on Oct. 4, 2010

  • In the book "7 habits of highly effective people' It explains love being an action and that love the emotion comes from those actions. The emotion we think of as love has been sold to us by stories but that feeling can't just continue on you need toshow it (even during those moments you feel less)

    Answer by seturkey at 7:54 PM on Oct. 4, 2010

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