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so depressed now...

i am so depressed now that my ex is involved with another girl.....
i didn't wanna know he loved her..
i didn't wanna know he moved in with her...
but i don't want him any more i don't love him any more but why am i soo depressed?

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Asked by justgg at 7:42 PM on Oct. 24, 2008 in Relationships

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  • Are you being totally honest with yourself on this one? If you truly did not want him anymore then you would be nothing but happy for him that he is happy. Or could it be you did not miss the water till the well went dry? Just because we don't want them doesn't mean somebody else won't. Or maybe you just want the same for yourself , to be with someone and happy. Only you know the answer.

    Answer by salexander at 8:03 PM on Oct. 24, 2008

  • your probably upset he found someone so soon after you. that's normal but i think you need to talk to your friends about it. maybe they would be able to help you get out of this. time will heal all wounds my girlfriend never shut up about her ex but i listened and she is happy that she got over him. you will too some day.

    Answer by melody77 at 9:18 PM on Oct. 24, 2008

  • it's grief over a relationship that has ended for you. It's ok to be depressed. It's to grieve. You put time into the relationship. It will take time to get over the loss. It's not about him. It's about the loss and the emptiness from the void he left. It's time to fill it up with other things when you are ready to let the grief go. Do it in your own time but don't dwell too long. If you do, then you might miss out on finding that man that is just right for you. It's all good once you get past the grief.

    Answer by admckenzie at 9:29 PM on Oct. 24, 2008

  • You always want what you no longer have. Keep in mind..... the past is the past for a reason.

    Answer by alaskaice at 10:02 PM on Oct. 24, 2008

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