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I marry this african guy and he left the country the very next day to return which he never did but sent me a message that i should divorce him what can i do

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pow109

Asked by pow109 at 6:15 PM on Oct. 5, 2010 in Relationships

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  • WOW, I guess since he left you just get an annulment that way it looks like your marriage never took place and make sure he doesn't get a green card for marrying you. I'm sorry mama. Have you asked him what's going on?
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 6:17 PM on Oct. 5, 2010

  • call a lawyer!
    Darla47

    Answer by Darla47 at 6:17 PM on Oct. 5, 2010

  • divorce him... why would you want to be with someone that doesn't love you?
    June_Mama09

    Answer by June_Mama09 at 6:17 PM on Oct. 5, 2010

  • Did he do it for a green card? You can very easily get the marriage annulled.
    MaryWolfe

    Answer by MaryWolfe at 6:19 PM on Oct. 5, 2010

  • He do not answer my calls and i heard he was married
    pow109

    Comment by pow109 (original poster) at 6:20 PM on Oct. 5, 2010

  • Wow, how long did you know this person? Do whatever necessary to get out. Try to get all the facts together and take it from there.
    tootoobusy

    Answer by tootoobusy at 6:26 PM on Oct. 5, 2010

  • call a lawyer or attorney they will be better to assist you... I'm sorry you have to deal with this... GL!
    June_Mama09

    Answer by June_Mama09 at 6:27 PM on Oct. 5, 2010

  • Contact an attorney and share all the details/entire story with them.

    An attorney can determine: if the marriage is legal & valid (if he is married to another woman, it most likely will be declared invalid) the proper channels to file for an international divorce (the divorce laws in the country in which your husband recides/is a citizen of will also need to be taken into account).., what your rights are in regards to a divorce..etc..etc.
    pixie_trix

    Answer by pixie_trix at 6:31 PM on Oct. 5, 2010

  • Annullment should be rather easy to get for this.
    Alanaplus3

    Answer by Alanaplus3 at 6:32 PM on Oct. 5, 2010

  • what kind of sh*t is that? i would definately get a lawyer involved
    mymommasgirl

    Answer by mymommasgirl at 8:34 PM on Oct. 5, 2010

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