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would you ever propose to a man?

why or why not?

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Asked by stressedmomma13 at 7:52 PM on Oct. 5, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Traditional down on one knee proposal, no. Cliche and not my style. " Hey honey, I think we should get married. What do you say?" I would definitely ask! All that kind of dating and relationship stuff kinda got dumped unto men, and i find it unfair.

    Answer by silversmom at 7:55 PM on Oct. 5, 2010

  • No, call me old fashion but there are somethings that are a man's job.

    Answer by mommyscrazy3 at 7:56 PM on Oct. 5, 2010

  • No. I'm just not that aggressive. IMO if a man loves me enough I wouldn't have to propose to him.

    Answer by SalemWitchChild at 7:56 PM on Oct. 5, 2010

  • No, its because I am old fashion and I think that a man should do it.

    Answer by saysha100687 at 8:16 PM on Oct. 5, 2010

  • nope. i would mention or throw hints or whatever .......but i think its a mans job

    Answer by mymommasgirl at 8:24 PM on Oct. 5, 2010

  • Yes and did, married 23 yrs in March

    Answer by jasonsmommom at 9:01 PM on Oct. 5, 2010

  • I think it's funny that women like to say they're old-fashioned or "it's a man's job," when it's something they don't want to do themselves. Just be honest about it! You want the man to put himself out there for you, to ask and take the chance that you'll shoot him down instead of asking him and possibly having him say no. Nothing wrong with a woman asking, I think.

    Answer by ceallaigh at 9:14 PM on Oct. 5, 2010

  • Yes, I would

    Answer by MeandMyBabes at 1:52 PM on Oct. 6, 2010

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