Hey, your four year did not choose your boyfriend. If you couldn't provide a decent husband and father for your FIRST child, why did you rush out and have another child with someone you haven't bothered to marry yet? What message does that send to your child?
I don't blame your child for not wanting to have anythign to do with the man taking away all his mommy's attention.
In fact, I hated EVERY one of my mother's boyfriends. No one likes the dude f*cking their mom. DO not expect your child to love or even like your new stud. Its not too late to start putting your children FIRST, yes that means YOU come second, and baby daddies come THIRD. If you dont get your ducks in line now, you will regret it the rest of your life.
at 10:16 PM on Oct. 24, 2008