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do you feel obilgated to give gifts if someone gives a gift to you and/or your chilldren?

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stressedmomma13

Asked by stressedmomma13 at 1:41 AM on Oct. 6, 2010 in Holidays

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  • I shouldn't feel obligated, but I do anyway..... LOL
    sherribeare

    Answer by sherribeare at 1:45 AM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • same here. Like I know that DD's grandparents & other extended family on her bio dad's side are gonna go crazy on the gifts for her. We are doing a more low key thing. I will feel obligated to buy them something but I do not want to. Not because I have anything against them, but I simply do not want to end up spending another couple hundred dollars.
    stressedmomma13

    Comment by stressedmomma13 (original poster) at 1:47 AM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • you shouldn't feel obligated to give, especially when it is not in your budget of wasting that extra money....If you feel u gotta give something at least go to a dollar tree store and they have cards there starting at $.50, so don't worry and don't stress it it aint healthy.
    kimberly339

    Answer by kimberly339 at 1:48 AM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • no
    dutchcanadain

    Answer by dutchcanadain at 1:51 AM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • No. I let people know we don't exchange gifts and ask them to do the same with us. If they give us something anyway, I say thank you.
    Anna92464

    Answer by Anna92464 at 7:53 PM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • Sometimes I do
    Sheleekieije

    Answer by Sheleekieije at 10:41 PM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • Why not make them something homemade?! Do your daughter's hand prints or something like Cookies in a Jar. Those things are very inexpensive, and it's something that I think almost any grandparent would like. For Mother's Day and stuff like that, and even birthdays, I've almost always had my kids make my mom something. She would rather have that than something bought from the store. And that's from her mouth, not mine!
    bethanysmom1007

    Answer by bethanysmom1007 at 10:50 PM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • nope
    mekarevell

    Answer by mekarevell at 9:12 AM on Oct. 14, 2010

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