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Do you look through your SO's phone?

Does anyone ever snoop through their SO's phone, with or without permission? Do you think it's wrong and makes for a relationship without trust?


Asked by Shanna84 at 9:47 AM on Oct. 6, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (18)
  • If I wanted to I would and since he's my husband I wouldn't see it as wrong. But I don't simply because, well, it's a phone. What interesting things could I find in a phone? If I want to know something about him or his day I simply ask him.

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 9:50 AM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • Never - I think it's a breach of trust. If I asked him to look through it, he would just hand it over. I would do the same.

    Answer by Scuba at 9:49 AM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • I have.. I used to have serious trust issues.

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 9:52 AM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • I rarely ever look at my husband's cell phone. If I do look at it, it's not because I'm a snoop. I usually use his phone to play a game or take pictures because his phone has a flash and mine doesn't.

    He looks at my phone. I don't know if he's being a snoop about it or not, but he usually gets on it to use the internet and play the games on mine as well.

    Anything that's on my phone, my husband already knows about. Any time I'm chatting with someone via text messages, I tell him about. We don't keep secrets.

    Answer by poptart0325 at 9:59 AM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • any chance i get i dont know why i never find anything but i do it and he does it too

    Answer by shannonsmom555 at 9:48 AM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • No, I don't even go through my own phone unless I run out of storage space, and even then I usually get my teenager to do it for me. My husband has a different phone than I do too, so I wouldn't even know how to go through his phone if I wanted to. I hate cell phones.

    Answer by TweenAndTwinMom at 9:51 AM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • Why in the world would I do that? If there is no trust in a relationship, then there is no relationship

    Answer by TALuke at 9:52 AM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • Yes I have and he knows about it! I have gone through it all! I have had lost trust at one point but now I'm trying to gain it back!

    Answer by Darla47 at 9:59 AM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • Nope. I have nothing to worry about with it. Any text or phone conversations he has, he lets me know about for conversation. What I DO sometimes worry about are the sites that he visits occasionally. Even then, it's nothing to worry about considering he lets me sleep alone (after 10pm so I can get up for work; he's a night owl) so that he doesn't "bother" me when I'm trying to sleep.

    Answer by _Tam_ at 11:06 AM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • With my ex yes I did, why? because I found something everytime. After we separated he admitted to cheating on me with 5 different women several times. My current I'll answer his phone or tell him who his texts are from but that's it.

    Answer by LasciviousVamp at 11:56 AM on Oct. 6, 2010