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would you be mad if your "bestfriend" that you thought you could trust told anyone you were pregnant before you? or even before asking you?

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Asked by lilyoungmom2b at 3:19 PM on Oct. 6, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Oh heck yah I would be.

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 3:21 PM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • yeah of course. That happened to me but it was my brother who told everyone. My parents finally where gonna get a grandson after 8 granddaughters and he told them before i could cause they where in bed when i called them. I was so pissed.

    Answer by charmd18 at 3:23 PM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • I'd probably be irritated but it's not like they were spreading some kind of malicious rumor or something. I wouldn't lose sleep, or the friendship, over it.

    Answer by riotgrrl at 3:23 PM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • NO!!!

    Answer by gertie41 at 3:23 PM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • YES! In the same situation here except it was the mother-in-law that blabbed. She said she didn't know it was a secret. Right, I'm sure. She knew with our first that we didn't want people to know till we were 12 weeks. Also, would you just assume you could tell everyone?

    Answer by moviemom22 at 3:23 PM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • the thing is everyone she had thenerve to tell me who had a right to noe nd says shes not wrong i am 4 keepin a mistake.................then she tells my sis who is gunna tell my mom 4 sure

    Comment by lilyoungmom2b (original poster) at 3:26 PM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • Furious! My "best friend" posted it on facebook before I told anyone and after I told her not to tell anyone. I let it go then.... but we are no longer friends because of other incidents when she couldn't keep her mouth shut!

    Answer by Namaste17 at 3:35 PM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • No. When someone told my mom I was pregnant before I did irritated me, but whatever. She saw me buying a pregnancy test and later that evening she told my mom "Congratulations on being a grandma again!" Good thing the test came back positive lol.

    Answer by PoisonousBlonde at 5:49 PM on Oct. 6, 2010

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