My husband became even more thoughtful and considerate when I became pregnant 5 years after our marriage. He had never even held a baby until our first child was born, but he became a very hands on daddy and was always willing to help out so that I could have some little breaks. Today, he is a wonderful granddaddy to our 6 grandchildren and will feed them, change their diapers or just hold and cuddle them if that is what needs to be done. Having children does not change a man, but it does either bring out the best in him or in some cases, it brings out the worst in him. It's all about the basic character of the man and what is important to him to begin with.
at 4:02 PM on Oct. 6, 2010