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Any suggestions in how to get over a cheater, a crack head, and a manipulator who is useless to anyone even though he is sick I believe it is because of his addiction I am in recovery myself and have 2 years clean he cant seem to get oneday under his belt and cant be honest with me or anybody else am I hurting him by turning my back on him I have been trying for years and all he has done is use me, cheated on me is it wrong to cut off all ties with him and move on even though it hurts

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Asked by crystal493 at 4:17 PM on Oct. 6, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Are you ever going to stop posting this drama?

    Answer by bjojola at 4:18 PM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • I was wondering the same thing bjojola.....

    Easy. STOP thinking about it!

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 4:19 PM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • just don't deal with him in other words his an ass hole...why would anyone want to be with an ass hole??? not i

    Answer by iNk-FrEaK at 4:20 PM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • Move on with your life and leave him in your past!

    Answer by Darla47 at 4:21 PM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • listen u have been clean sometimes u need to be a little selfish special when it comes to stopping bad habits u need to cut all ties and honestly think of your self and your health

    good luck and stay focus

    Answer by cnoble927 at 4:21 PM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • By leaving him.

    Answer by countrygirl1987 at 4:25 PM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • Sometimes, the very best thing you can do for a dependent person is to leave him to figure out and fix his own mess. I would be moving on.

    Answer by NannyB. at 4:27 PM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • Do you really love him? Does he have family? Can you do anything more? Does he want to quit?
    Addiction is a disease. Would you leave him if he had cancer?

    Answer by tootoobusy at 4:30 PM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • Stay with him. It's obvious that he loves you so much and wants you to be with him and only him forever and ever and ever. You two will live out the most perfect fantasy life ever imagined.

    Answer by BradenIsMySon at 4:39 PM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • DTMFA!

    Answer by BluDog at 6:25 PM on Oct. 6, 2010

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