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Am I being too whiny?

My DH has come home almost every day this week with "something" he has to go do. As I cook dinner he walks into the room and begins the conversation with "I have to go to *****'s house and get....or help with....". It has been every day this week. Today I said fine. I will sit here alone while you are gone again. I quit my job a few months ago with one of the main reasons being "you don't need to work and we need to spend more time together". Am I wrong to point out that this annoys me?

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Asked by Anonymous at 10:14 PM on Oct. 6, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (9)
  • no your not. i would be pissed too

    Answer by PURPULbutterfly at 10:15 PM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • Say "Great, I will get my coat."

    Answer by tootoobusy at 10:17 PM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • I think a great response from you would be, "Give me a couple minutes and I'll come with you."

    Answer by tortkey at 10:17 PM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • i agree i think you should say your going to go along..

    Answer by sam_ann at 10:19 PM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • Okay ask him if he is avoiding you? Then have a discussion.

    Answer by mmmegan38 at 10:21 PM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • no, you are not being whiny. tell him how you feel.

    Answer by keisha613 at 10:24 PM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • nope. i would too. i would ask him about it definately and point it out that he is doing it. maybe he does not realize he is.

    Answer by MamaHardy2008 at 11:03 PM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • no way...good for you

    Answer by 4_28_bbboy at 11:10 PM on Oct. 6, 2010

  • I would do as some suggested and go with. If he protests, then I would say fine, but who knows if I will be here when you get home. And if I felt like it which I probably would - I WOULD leave.

    Answer by Babylove76 at 2:56 AM on Oct. 7, 2010

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