I'm really unhappy with my life here in NY state. I'm lonely and depressed. All of my family lives in California. The only person I have here is my 2 year old's father, but he isn't able to be there for me the way that I need him to be. He says if I want to move to Cali with our dd, he's ok with it. He and the baby can keep in touch via webcam, letters, phone calls, etc. Financially he could only make it out to Cali 2 times per year (and the baby and I can visit him in NY once per year). Sounds all wonderful, right??
The problem is, he won't realize how much he misses her until she's 3000 miles away. e won't get to see her whenever he wants to like he does now. She may even forget who he is in between visits. How will that make him feel? How will that make ME feel? GUILTY.
When I became a mom, I vowed to put my dd's needs ahead of my own. But I can't deal with my depression any longer. It's killing me. Advice?
Asked by Anonymous at 10:46 PM on Oct. 6, 2010 in Relationships
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