Sex has ever been a point of contention in my marriage. My husband's libido is lower than mine. He almost never initiates, he's cool with it being two weeks between sack sessions, and he just doesn't WANT. I need to be wanted. I do all the foreplay work about 80% of the time, but would like it to be more of a reciprocal thing... where he enjoys doing things to me as much as having things done to him.
After much discussion between us and 6 years of it being a problem for us, I'm realizing that I'm going to have to be the one to change. He can't. I respec that and love him for who he is. But I don't know how to go about changing what I feel like I NEED out of our sexual relationship.
Where do I start?
Asked by Anonymous at 11:33 PM on Oct. 6, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Fistandantalus at 7:35 AM on Oct. 7, 2010
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