my husband goes to work about 4am he is out the door and returns homeat about 5pm sometimes later and sometimes earlier . Give or take an hour or so. He works in construction out in the sun all day and comes home so tired and just beat. He usually eats and showers and goes to bed and we see him maybe 30 mins while we eat . And he is off on sundays and is to tired to do much with us and out sex life is really suffering cuz of this and all else is too . Am Iselfish for wanting him to sepnd time with our 7 monthold sonand I? He is a workaholic in my mind but I appreciate all the hard work he does to keep us fed and clothed . I just want to know if i am selfish?? We miss him and I go out of my mind never seeing him and hever having him be intimate with me much anymore cuz of his job . and my son never get to see his daddy .Answer Question
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Answer by Anonymous at 12:53 AM on Oct. 7, 2010
No you are not selfish what so ever, the reason we get married or get in a relationships is cuz we need that connection with someone so we don't feel lonely etc. etc. I know how you feel my husband has been working 12 hour days 7 days a week, I'm going nuts and my boys miss him too, don't you ever feel like your selfish for missing your man. If talking don't work maybe wait it out cuz construction is like a roller coaster it could be going strong one month and slow the next month, the good thing is your man goes out there and takes care of his family, there are tons of men out there that don't want to do anything but sit on there ass drink beer and play PlayStation, good luck and I hope he gets a few days off soon and trust me I'm hoping my hubby get a couple off himself.
Answer by looovemybabies at 12:54 AM on Oct. 7, 2010
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