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What would you do?

If you found out your husband has kids from a previous relationship he didn't know about?

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Asked by Anonymous at 10:11 AM on Oct. 7, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (7)
  • Get the facts....

    Answer by Musicmom80 at 10:13 AM on Oct. 7, 2010

  • After the shock wore off, we would do the best we could for everyone involved.

    Answer by Scuba at 10:13 AM on Oct. 7, 2010

  • Freak out! Then try to find out what is going on...possible DNA tests!

    Answer by twinmama2five at 10:17 AM on Oct. 7, 2010

  • well since we've been together since we were 15 and 16 - i would kick his ass!!!!!!!!

    Answer by mamasmurf171 at 10:18 AM on Oct. 7, 2010

  • What can you do? If he did not know then it is just as much of a surprise to him. Was a paternity test done? If so and the child is his then you two just need to sit down and have a serious conversation about the next step and make a plan to give that child what they need. Good luck

    Answer by Cheveyo1 at 10:24 AM on Oct. 7, 2010

  • What good is it to make any waves. This man has his own personal problems, if it's a real issue and he just escaped with you to escape for the easy way out of the first children, (after paternity, I'd assume) and after proof of them being his own, then let him still prove he is worthy of having you by first admitting the truth, facing the truth, living with the facts, and start to deal with them. If the woman however just wants to stir things up for drama, and knows he ran, she is obligated to sue him for support, regardless what his life is like now. He's the dad, (paternity first), than proof.>>>> then drama.

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:27 AM on Oct. 7, 2010

  • I would be really surprised cause he was a virgin when we got together! lol

    Answer by ErinT at 1:05 PM on Oct. 7, 2010

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