i agree, i have a son and he's never seen his father. so it was a lil easier for me when i got married to my husband. my husband has a firmer hand when it comes to misbehaving than i do, so it was hard for my son to take his punishment and not be afraid of my husband. but now he knows that my husband only wants what best for him and loves him like he was his own son. and we've been married going on 3 years now. so it takes time. and since i'm sure my baby daddy have no plans on being a father to my son, my husband is the only father he's had. so your son have 2. let them know it's ok to love their father and your husband.
at 10:08 AM on Jul. 3, 2008