I have had 9 miscarriages in 2 years. The earliest was 2 months and the latest was 6 months. I have been torn mentally. All I can think about is babies. I still get upset when I see pregnant women. I don't know what to do anymore. If anyone can help me please help.Answer Question
Answer by KnoxvilleDoula at 8:12 PM on Oct. 25, 2008
Answer by little.miss.mom at 8:15 PM on Oct. 25, 2008
I am truly sorry for all of your losses, have you seen a doctor to try to figure out why it keeps happening? If the miscarriages are continuously occurring maybe you can look for a surrogate mother. A sister or sil might agree to carry for you. You can also look into adoption. As for emotional healing, you might want to talk to a grief counselor, online groups are also a good way to get all your grief out but it's very distant or impersonal.Only other moms who have miscarried can relate to what you are going through. God luck honey, I'll be praying for you.
Answer by BooBear666 at 8:34 PM on Oct. 25, 2008
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Answer by CarrieH77 at 10:03 PM on Oct. 25, 2008
Answer by happysplaygroun at 11:31 PM on Oct. 25, 2008
*hugs* I've only suffered two losses myself and both first trimester. I strongly suggest finding a support group. On mine, there is a mama in the PAL (pregnancy after loss) section with me who has had 8 losses and was pregnant with twins until a few days ago, when she lost one of them. She still has one, though, and high hopes of making it to the end. It's such a hard thing to go through and it's impossible to deal with alone. If you are open to natural-minded mamas, the group I was on is here and they're really amazing support for healing.
Answer by Xakana at 4:01 AM on Oct. 26, 2008
Answer by grace670 at 4:53 AM on Oct. 26, 2008
Answer by RaeRae66 at 4:00 AM on Oct. 27, 2008