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When do you tell the father of your unborn child it's his?

When did you tell yours? What did you do to prepare for it?


Asked by Prayerpartner at 6:41 AM on Oct. 8, 2010 in Pregnancy

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  • Unfortunately I did not want to have my pregnancy happen like it did. I got pregnant by an abuser. But I told him as soon as the test was positive. And then I regretted telling him. Bc that is when his abuse starting getting worse. But I think that you should tell the biological as soon as you know. I mean it is exciting to be pregnant and you want them to experience it with you. Or if in my case, you want someone to experience it with you. I ended up leaving the biological of my son and now have a wonderful life with a guy that i have known for a long long time and he wants to be the father of my son. I also have family support. When you know you should let everyone involved know. It is hard but you can do it. You need the support. Believe me. If you want you can talk to me. I have an interesting story. send me a message for more information.

    Answer by courtneyrogers at 9:20 AM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • i told him as soon as i found out it took us 5 years to get pregnant again

    Answer by devinalexis at 7:13 AM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • Well Im sure you are talking about when your not in a realationship...I am married and we took the test together so he knew as soon as I did...and my opinion is u tell him ASAP...its not going away....just do it.

    Answer by 3beautbabies at 12:00 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • We took the test together and were excited to see a possitive line, so he knew right when I did.

    Answer by worriedmommy600 at 12:25 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • I would be honest and just tell him

    Answer by ladyambition at 3:53 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • I told mine immediately. I can't hide stuff from him.

    Answer by Amanda52007 at 6:57 AM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • assuming he gives a darn, pretty darn quick

    Answer by Zoeyis at 7:28 AM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • I told him immediately after I took the tests.

    Answer by Congenial at 7:59 AM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • I told him right after i took the test.

    Answer by carsonsmommytam at 1:14 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • he told me! He got the call with the results of the blood test so he knew first!

    Answer by ErinT at 1:31 PM on Oct. 8, 2010