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what would you do if your husband lets his kids sleep in the bed while you sleep on the blowup mat?

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unreal

Asked by unreal at 9:25 PM on Oct. 25, 2008 in Relationships

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  • Excuse me? That wouldn't be an issue in my house...
    pupmom

    Answer by pupmom at 9:27 PM on Oct. 25, 2008

  • Nip that in the bud now
    Christinemg0813

    Answer by Christinemg0813 at 9:28 PM on Oct. 25, 2008

  • I'm thinking these r ur step-children?
    LovingParent08

    Answer by LovingParent08 at 9:31 PM on Oct. 25, 2008

  • I have tried talking to him about it, fighting about it. I really don't know what to do next.
    unreal

    Answer by unreal at 9:31 PM on Oct. 25, 2008

  • yes they are my step children
    unreal

    Answer by unreal at 9:32 PM on Oct. 25, 2008

  • Doesn't matter if they are step children, your bedroom is meant for you two only!
    Christinemg0813

    Answer by Christinemg0813 at 9:34 PM on Oct. 25, 2008

  • Do you mean that the kids are in bed with dad and you are on the floor? Or do you mean he gives the kids the bed and the two of you are on the floor?
    profmom922

    Answer by profmom922 at 9:37 PM on Oct. 25, 2008

  • No, I'm on the floor downstairs and they are in the bed upstairs.
    unreal

    Answer by unreal at 9:37 PM on Oct. 25, 2008

  • Are they visiting? Maybe he is trying to improve his relationship with his kids, but I would think he woud discuss it first. I find it odd personally. I always throw kids on the blowup mattresses. Most of the time thier bodies take it better.
    SusieD250

    Answer by SusieD250 at 9:40 PM on Oct. 25, 2008

  • That doesn't sound like a relationship to me. Tell him it's alright for him to love and snuggle with his kids; but they need their own bed and you two need your own space. You will never become a close couple if you can't get close physically.
    gwood

    Answer by gwood at 9:41 PM on Oct. 25, 2008

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