I say this because we both seem to be having the SAME problem..DH came home from deployment in March and we were both sooo happy to be back together..but after a month things just didnt seem the same as they did before he left. We used to communicate SO well like we NEVER fought because we could always talk out our problems and frustrations. But now its like we cant talk without fighting or screaming and we both get soo annoyed with eachother it makes me sad :(..But so much bad shit has happened the past few months and while he was deployed (everything went wrong!) weve both just been soo stressed..I feel like hes gotten so aggresive, like he has never hit me but so have I..I get annoyed and Ill smack him (his arm ) and he'll get mad and grab my wrist or smack me back and say see doesnt feel so good does it..and he NEVER used to do anything like that..I guess it worries me, but hes always been so mellow until now. ObviouslyAnswer Question
Answer by armyofmany at 11:16 AM on Oct. 8, 2010
Its common for you to change during deployments. I would suggest getting some counseling, somewhere that you two can sit down and talk calmly with someone to mediate.
Answer by hobbitswife04 at 12:06 PM on Oct. 8, 2010