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This really bugs me for some reason, lol

If you answer a question on this site in what you feel is an honest answer ( and yes some answers are brutally honest) but yet your simply stating how you would handle the situation and you give your advice.....the poster ends up getting mad and deleting the question, just because it was something they did not want to hear! This is frustrating to people really that immature.....?????

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Asked by tracylyn245 at 1:38 PM on Oct. 8, 2010 in About CafeMom

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  • yea i know what you mean..but i kind of forget it..unless its a question i really liked i dont go back to it

    Answer by Lovin_mybaby5 at 1:39 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • It drives me nuts too!! Sometimes I post a spinoff of the question so people can answer! lol

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 1:41 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • Maybe they felt like they shouldn't have posted the question. It might not have had anything to do with you. Just a thought. ;)

    Answer by twinmama2five at 1:44 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • Yes, it bugs me but they asked the question so I am gonna put my opinion.. liked or not.. ya know

    Answer by ajc88 at 1:58 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • I know what you mean.

    Answer by tiddliwinks at 2:03 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • don't assume that the poster deletes it, I had a question last week, and responses got so heated that CM deleted it.
    If the poster deletes it, it could be for good reason, maybe it seems that people are getting very upset.

    anyway, if you can tell that the poster of the question is mad, then deletes it, I personally chuckle.

    Answer by ItsMe89 at 2:08 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • They probably deleted it because they were insulted. It's their prerogative to delete if they want. You can give an opinion in a nice way without being "brutal" too. I try not to insult although when I read my answer back before I post it, it may sound insulting so I try to make it a little nicer because after all, we are all adults and basically in the same boat. I try to see things from another's point of view because If I have never walked in their shoes, who am I to be judgemental or harsh? But sometimes it just can come out that way so who cares if they delete it?


    Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 2:24 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • yes they are.

    Answer by canta1980 at 12:07 AM on Oct. 9, 2010

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