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So my new boyfriend likes to look at porn..I have no prob with that but I personally dont like it..It doesnt bother me that he likes to watch it I just dont care for it and dont want to watch at all...lol its not for me Well recently hes been asking if I will watch it with him he says that hes happy with our sex life. My question is how do I tell him that I dont wanna watch it? Growing up my step dad was addicted to porn, id walk in to the living room and hed be goin at it watching porn...I just dont like it.. any advice?

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KaylynnsMommie2

Asked by KaylynnsMommie2 at 2:00 PM on Oct. 8, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Just tell him it aint your thing!
    SuperrMommyy

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 2:00 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • just tell him you don't want to, if he can't respect that then he's a jerk
    josiesmommy00

    Answer by josiesmommy00 at 2:01 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • Pretend, and please....
    older

    Answer by older at 2:02 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • you could just show him this post.
    sorry you had to see your stepdad like that- that's terrible!
    ItsMe89

    Answer by ItsMe89 at 2:03 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • I would talk to him about it.. not just tell him.. so that way he can understand why you do not wish to watch it. GL!
    ajc88

    Answer by ajc88 at 2:03 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • Thanx ladies! You guys are the best!

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    KaylynnsMommie2

    Comment by KaylynnsMommie2 (original poster) at 2:06 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • tell him that you're ok with him watching it, but you can't yourself because your stepdad had issues with that and it really scarred you.....if he loves you and cares for you, he wont press the issue further.
    LynnB1

    Answer by LynnB1 at 2:15 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

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