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Do you think it's right to force your kid to go to church if they made it clear they don't want to go?

If they tell you they don't believe in anything they preach or teach so they don't want to go. Is it right to force them?

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Asked by GinNTonic at 2:15 PM on Oct. 8, 2010 in Religious Debate

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  • Never. In the end it will only create a bigger backlash.

    Answer by ObbyDobbie at 2:16 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • If they are old enough to express this and discuss it, then no I wouldn't make them go.

    Answer by 2BlondeBabies at 2:16 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • Nope, and I'm so glad my parents never forced me.

    Answer by thatgirl70 at 2:17 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • And also when is it freedom of religion? When the parents shove their beliefs down the kid's throat or when the kid decides for themsleves what their faith should be?

    Comment by GinNTonic (original poster) at 2:17 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • how old are they?
    i'm not going to force my children to go to church but i hope they choose to when they're older but if not i can't make that decision for them

    Answer by josiesmommy00 at 2:17 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • When they are old enough/mature enough to have a true opinion AND be able to explain it and not just trying to 'get out of it' then yes we can talk about that.

    Answer by But_Mommie at 2:17 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • My mom always forced my brothers and I to go even though we made it clear to her we didn't want to because we didn't believe in it. Even now she still tries to force me to go. More like guilt me into going, but same thing.

    Comment by GinNTonic (original poster) at 2:18 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • Yes. I love religious freedom but we (Me and SO) have a responsibility. We must lead by example.

    Answer by 2tinyhineys at 2:18 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • Well, it depends. Is it reasonable to expect a parent to pay for a babysitter because the child doesn't want to do something? No. it's not. So the kid can pack up a book or something and sit politely and obey their parents wishes. If we are talking about someone who is almost grown and can stay home alone without costing the parents extra money and stress, then no, I don't believe they should be forced to go.

    Answer by lovinangels at 2:19 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • Well yeah if the kid is a kid than they have no choice. They can bitch and moan about it all they want. But when they do get to that age (and it can be any age) where they realize they don't believe in it and would rather not go anymore, I don't think they should be forced to go.

    Comment by GinNTonic (original poster) at 2:21 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

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