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what woud you do if you had the urge to cheat on your SO?

you still loved them & wanted to be with them, but you just wanted to be with somebody else.


Asked by Anonymous at 5:19 PM on Oct. 8, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (15)
  • Being an adult,I can control my urges.

    Answer by GingerKitten at 4:12 PM on Oct. 9, 2010

  • I'd pull my head out of my ass.

    Answer by thatgirl70 at 5:20 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • If I had someone already in mind, I'd back away from that friendship as fast as I could go. If I was just wanting another relationship, I'd take a good long look at my marriage and my life and decide if I want to risk losing all that. I don't. Either way I'd be having a long conversation with my husband so we could figure out together what the problem is and fix it. A marriage should be forever. A fling can ruin that.

    Answer by duckigrrl at 5:24 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • Never happened, never will. If I get to the point I want to sleep with somebody else, I'll get out of whatever relationship I'm in first, because obviously something isn't there.

    Answer by Anouck at 5:20 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • I would have to leave the relationship I am currently in and find myself again. To me it is never OK to cheat.

    Answer by gratefulangel77 at 5:26 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • If I had that urge it would mean he no longer attracts me as a man.


    Answer by older at 5:21 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • I'd stop looking at other guys. If it was a specific person, I'd avoid them. I'd probably even tell my SO my feelings too to hold myself accountable.

    Answer by Cenchan at 5:23 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • before I would have done nothing but now I am leaving because this person wants to have sex again. LOL

    Answer by pinkdragon36 at 5:31 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • I would never ever cheat. If you aren't happy w/who are you with then you need to be straight up & honest with them, break it off.

    Answer by BeachMommy07 at 5:41 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • if you still love them and are being treated good i'd say don't cheat

    Answer by beckybuck at 6:05 PM on Oct. 8, 2010