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is my s.o a pedophile?

when we met I was about to turn 15 and he was 22 now I am 17 and he is 24?

I am asking for opinions not to be bashed.


Asked by Anonymous at 8:23 PM on Oct. 8, 2010 in Parenting Debate

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Answers (22)
  • Well, my friend met her current husband when she was 17 and he was 29. He is now 42 and she is 30 and they're still together and married.

    Answer by BridgetC140 at 10:31 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • A 22 year old with a 14 year old.. Yeah I would say that is weird.. I would think someone that much older with a minor is looking for a "easy target" or he is not very mature himself... But without knowing you and him, of course my thoughts are gonna wonder.

    Answer by midnightmoma at 8:31 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • from a mothers point of view now i say hell fucking yeah cuz if my daughters ever came home and told me that shit i will kill the guy...but idk thats nasty shit sorry my OP

    Answer by iNk-FrEaK at 8:25 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • maybe not a pedophile but def creepy...

    Answer by mamagee1218 at 8:28 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • Some guys like teens because they are willing targets. They want older guys.

    Answer by louise2 at 8:40 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • No,he's a pervert!

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 8:25 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • I would say yes! If it was my DD I would have his ass in jail! A 22-yr old has no business with a 14- yr old, it is just wrong!! No bashing just my opinion! Now ask yourself if your 14- yr old DD comes home one day and tell you that her BF is 22 how would you feel? What would you do?

    Answer by dana63 at 8:36 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • I don't particularry agree with it..but when I was 13 I looked 18. I was very intimidating to the guys my age and usually only the older guys seemed interested.

    Answer by Mommyof3yippey at 8:40 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • i would say he has issues because he can't find a girl his own age...this may be a problem for you when you get older because likely he will still be very immature

    Answer by shay1130 at 9:30 PM on Oct. 8, 2010

  • I would say he is definitely creepy. What in the world would a 22 year old have in common with a 14 year old?! I agree with midnightmomma that you were probably an easy target for him or that he can't find someone his own age for whatever reason.

    Answer by Ash9724 at 10:06 PM on Oct. 8, 2010