Or, make the dinner and eat it at the table - but wear some sexy teddy or something. Discuss a current event that you're interested in. Write him a dirty letter and tape it to his steering wheel. Basically, you don't have to be "on" full time - as a mom, especially if you have little ones - this is impossible. But aking the time, even once a week, to focus on your marriage - NOT as mom and dad, but as husband and wife, can go a long way. But, and I don't mean this mean, but if your dh is telling you this, this is a problem, and it's one that only you can fix - and the best way to do this is to take some time for the two of you, before it ends up too late and a few months from now you're posting that your dh cheated or left, and now you're no longer the "wife and" - you're only a mother :-(
I know what I'm talking about - I almost made the same mistake, but followed this advice and happily married 18 yrs now.
at 12:56 PM on Oct. 9, 2010