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Before I got pregnant my boyfriend wasn't exactly the nicest guy and most said he radiated arrogance. but ever since i've gotten pregnant he's changed completly. I got home yesturday from work and he had dinner done, the house was clean, and he had the bath full and rose petals in our bedroom. Is he just acting this way b/c of the baby or because he's actually growing up?

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Asked by Anonymous at 12:47 AM on Oct. 10, 2010 in Pregnancy

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  • hopefully growing up. Maybe having a child helped kick him in the pants

    Answer by KaraMia15 at 12:50 AM on Oct. 10, 2010

  • It took our son to be born for my husband to start growing up. He got progressively better over the first few years of his life. Hopefully yours in growing up.

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 12:50 AM on Oct. 10, 2010

  • AWWW! What a sweet thing to do! I'm jealous! I agree maybe you getting pregnant made him wise up and grow up.

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 12:51 AM on Oct. 10, 2010

  • Hopefully he is growing up and going to be responsible


    Answer by ladyambition at 12:58 AM on Oct. 10, 2010

  • Aww, that's so sweet...maybe he realized that he is about to have a kid so he can't act like either way, wish the best of luck for ya... congrats on the baby!!

    Answer by JuLiAnSmOmMy317 at 3:34 AM on Oct. 10, 2010

  • I would say he is just doing it for the baby, because if he had honestly wanted to change he would have done it before. My girlfriend's boyfriend did this and shortly after the baby was born and realized how much work it was taking care of a baby and all the time you got to invest and costs he went back to his old ways and started treating them both like crap and eventually left her with nothing. I would be cautious, and hope this doesn't happen that he is actually starting to grow-up

    Answer by heartsicksiren at 3:45 AM on Oct. 10, 2010

  • I hope he is growing up and it gets better and better.

    Answer by elizabr at 10:13 AM on Oct. 10, 2010

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