Honestly it drives me crazy. I mean do people SERIOUSLY think that when a couple decides to TTC they do not think it through. We thought about finances, how much room we have, if we wanted our family to change, if we were ready to deal with another pregnancy, etc.
It seems like every time I talk to someone about how long it is taking for us to concieve or ask a question about it I get "You're trying to hard." UM WHAT???? It's not like my whole dam day is consumed by TTC. We have sex when I'm fertile and hope for the best. Should we have sex less because that the only way to try "less hard."
Or there's the...
"Your baby is still young (almost 18 mons). You need to just enjoy him and try again later" Um...by the time our new baby is born our son will be 2 which is a good gap for us.
"Enjoy the kids you have"- I'm sorry but did I say I STOPPED enjoying them when we started TTC??
Does this bother you???
Asked by Anonymous at 3:23 AM on Oct. 10, 2010 in Trying to Conceive
Answer by JuLiAnSmOmMy317 at 3:39 AM on Oct. 10, 2010
Answer by Kittty_Katt at 4:26 AM on Oct. 10, 2010
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Answer by san78 at 5:45 AM on Oct. 11, 2010
Answer by MeandMyBabes at 4:15 PM on Oct. 11, 2010