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Okay so my boyfriend and babys dad argue all the time and its over really stupid stuff. I dont know what to do. HELP..

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Asked by Anonymous at 9:06 AM on Oct. 10, 2010 in General Parenting

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  • Why are they even talking? Just tell your BF to stay away from him.

    Answer by itsmesteph11 at 9:08 AM on Oct. 10, 2010

  • I agree with itsmesteph. There is no reason they should even be talking. Really. If something needs to be communicated, it should be done by you, not your bf.

    Answer by layh41407 at 9:11 AM on Oct. 10, 2010

  • until you marry the boyfriend...his opinions only count with you and for your ears only. the babys dad doent need to dictate your life thats the boyfriends department so to break it down....babys daddy = convo with you regarding the baby only. boyfriend = your lives,his opinion regarding the baby is restricted for ya"lls ears only and a must to allow you to handle the rest! put them both in their places and YOU handle the rest. good luck! its not going to be easy thou.

    Answer by lacyjones at 9:23 AM on Oct. 10, 2010

  • Tell them to grow up. Your BF really should not have anything to do with your babies dad unless you guys are getting married.

    Answer by Misteh at 9:26 AM on Oct. 10, 2010

  • tell them is they can't talk nice then don't talk to eachother at all.... i think that could work... but really they need to grow up... he's your ex for a reason... your boyfriend just needs to stop the drama too...

    Answer by Lynnsae at 10:54 AM on Oct. 10, 2010

  • There is no reason for the bf and dad to be talking as bf has no say in what goes on with the child the only one who should be talking to dad is you-- and I'd keep the conversations to be about the child, and not anything personal. The only one who needs to be talking to bf is you--- dad has no business getting involved in your relationship.

    Answer by MizLee at 1:48 PM on Oct. 10, 2010

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