throughout our 10 years together( together 10, married 5) I have been unfaithful to him several times before we were married. We have recently seperated and I have been with 3 other men( that he knows about) as well as he being with 3 other women(that I know about). He is always accusing me of having sex with other men, going out to find men, etc.. I love him so very much but cant take him putting me down any longer. I feel like he never tells me that i am beautiful, when in fact I know I am. But my self esteem is only around when someone is there telling me that. When I was with those other men, they would kiss the ground I walked on, telling me constantly how great I was. But I always went back to my husband. Things would change for about 1 week and go back to the normal. I love him with all my heart and soul and want to feel loved and admired by my husband. But since lying to him over the years, he doesnt trust me at all.Answer Question
Answer by aliceinalgonac at 3:09 PM on Oct. 10, 2010
Obviously he doesn't trust you because of your actions. If you want him to believe he's the only man you want to be with, prove it by not being with any other man.
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