I know someone will say that she doesn't realize what she said,but I know she did. My grandma is in kidney failure and is dying. I went to see her one last time. She was conscious and alert. She says hi to my cousin,tells her she looks more beautiful everytime she sees her. Says hi to me and then says "wow! You've really gained weight!" My heart dropped into my stomach. This could be the last time I see her and she calls me fat. This will be my last memory of her. My cousin lisa is beautiful,and I'm fat. This is how she sees me. If she wasn't aware of what she was saying,why did she praise her and put me down? She made me feel about an inch high today.
Answer by elizabr at 6:37 PM on Oct. 10, 2010
Answer by Raine2001 at 6:27 PM on Oct. 10, 2010
Answer by nanny29 at 6:30 PM on Oct. 10, 2010
I have 2 healthy grandma's, but trust me- they don't always realize the way they say things may hurt. You know they don't mean to hurt your feelings but it's like they don't have a filter- they just say whatever they want. I love my grandmas dearly and just try to blow off the little things they say. Like the previous poster said, just try to focus on the positive....maybe someday you'll be able to look back at this and laugh!!
Answer by skittles1108 at 6:35 PM on Oct. 10, 2010
Answer by elizabr at 6:55 AM on Oct. 11, 2010
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